Yom Hazikaron: Should it still Matter to Us?

Everyone living in Israel has been affected by terrorism and wars one way or the other. Any Israeli you meet will know of someone who perished in the terror attacks or in one of the wars. But what does it mean to those who did not fight in any of the wars or experienced terrorism in Israel first hand? While the idea of honoring the memories of those who fell during these tragic moments may seem commendable to us, what does it mean to mourn for the loss of someone or something that we never had?

This Sunday will mark Yom Hazikaron. Yom Hazikaron, Hebrew for Israel Memorial Day, is the day dedicated to honor the memory of fallen soldiers and victims of terror in Israel.  National services are held and families of the fallen visit graves of loved ones and hold eulogies. Yom Hazikaron commences with a one-minute siren on the preceding evening in pursuant to the Jewish calendar.

As the siren wails, the country comes to a standstill, including cars on roads and highways, making for a unique experience for those who have never encountered it before.  The Israel Memorial ceremony usually takes place at the Western Wall where the Israeli flag is lowered to half-mast.  The Prime Minister will address a speech to express condolences to the victims loved ones and remind us the importance of defending the State of Israel from impending terror threats of the surrounding Arab countries. Loved ones such as widows, widowers, orphans, and siblings of the fallen soldiers will speak about them.

Yom Hazikaron is not only a day to commemorate the fallen soldiers and victims of terror. It should be a reminder to us that we are still alive and standing to their heroism. It is also to honor the veterans and soldiers for their bravery. Whether you have served in the army or not, it behooves you to express your utmost gratitude towards those who nobly risk their lives on a daily basis to protect us from harm and danger.

So what can we do to show our sympathy and appreciation on this eventful day? When you see an Israeli soldier, thank him or her for their services. Let them know how grateful you are to have the most courageous and moral army in the Middle East such as the IDF (Israeli Defense Force) serving Israel. Donating to organizations that support Israeli soldiers is another way to express your appreciation towards their services.

Even though you may not be able to empathize with the pain and loss that most people who have lost a loved one experience, express your condolences. Be sympathetic and respectful. Let them know how much you admire and appreciate the victim’s heroism. Offer to reach out to their children who are currently serving in the army. They deserve our unconditional gratitude and support too. The most we can do as civilians is showing it to them.